Saturday 28 September 2013

Live Your Life

If we know the day we are going to die, each day becomes worse than hell. As we grow we forget to live. In today's world we are trapped, trapped between school, colleges, peers, job, parents, Education system and what not. Life is like a race and each and everyone is running without caring for anyone else, we all just want to secure the first position in that race. During the journey we can learn a lot and live a lot but for all of us, only winning matter. No one knows when we are going to die, it maybe just a second later after you've read this or maybe 50 years later, it can also be possible that you are dying right now and regretting why you didn't live your life when you had a chance. Steve Jobs is immortal, physically he is no more with us but we all will remember him always. He founded 'Apple'; one of the most amazing company with a no. of world's most fabulous gadgets. He once said," I always waked up thinking its my last day on Earth, and that attitude increased my altitude in life."
We think what others will think about me is I do this, if I do that etc. Dude let them think, those people don't have a life but you have one. Live it. Have fun. Fulfill all you dreams. Fall in love. Go drunk. Study Hard. Make your parents feel proud of you. Make new friends every day. Do all that you ever wanted to. I f you can't be happy at least make someone else feel happy. Share what you feel with your close ones, don't DIE inside. It's the biggest pain ever. Be whatever you are because everyone else is taken. Do whatever makes you FEEL HAPPY. Be it anything, Studying, Reading , Dancing, Athletics, Playing an Musical instrument, anything just anything but it has to be appropriate for your age :P. Want to swim in Atlantic ocean, Go for it , can't do it alone  get a friend along. Do all that you can to fulfill that wish and if it's a real strong desire you'll definitely do it. People who are fed up with their life and kill themselves in other words 'suicide' are not at all strong. Killing yourself doesn't take any courage. It's just a matter of few seconds.
We think only we have problems, there is no one in this world with a perfect life but it's just that some don't show how messed up their life is. They keep their chin up, put on a beautiful smile on their face and fight the world and the truth is that these people are strong, very strong. If they can fight with their life and go forward they can do anything in life. They can touch any star in the sky. They can fly very high. When you kill yourself it's not only you who is dying. You take along many people. People who loved you to the core, you suck happiness out of them. They feel that you killed yourself because of them, because they did something; but the truth is that you kill yourself because you were a coward!! You did no have the courage to live your life..
We all take our life very easily and let it go as it is because we have a life, but people suffering from some disease which cannot be cured, these people know the real meaning of life and these fellows are the one who cannot live even when they want to.
I once knew a girl who was just fifteen. Just like anyone else she also had many problems in her life. She fought with her mom, didn't talk to her dad and hated her relatives because she thought that they didn't understand her. The only reason why she was trying hard to live and fought with her life was because of some very important people in her life. They were- her boyfriend, whom she loved more than herself and he too loved her back a lot more; her brother with whom she could share anything and everything about her life; her best friend Anjali without whom she could not imagine a life; Salsa Dance- her passion, she was better than any profession; and last but not the least her 3 cousins with whom she lived her childhood and teenage years.
Once when she was combing her hair, her nose started bleeding and she got unconscious and fell on the floor. No one was there at home except her bro and a maid. Both of them thought that she might be sleeping late as it was a holiday. Later during lunch time when her bro came to wake her up, he found her lying on the floor and blood was all around her. With help of a neighbor he took her sister to the nearest hospital and there they got to know that she had less than 3 months to live as she was suffering from breast cancer. She did something really amazing in those last few months of her life. She spent every afternoon with her boyfriend just talking about all that came to her mind. Every weekend she met her family members whom she hadn't even seen in the past ten years. Every day she chatted with random people of her school and even made some really amazing friends. She was amazed to see how happy she felt just by seeing others smile. With the help of her boyfriend and brother she conducted seminars and workshops in school for teens and told them her story. She taught us all the true meaning of life. On October 12, 2009 she died peacefully, with a smile. She was an angel, and my favorite cousin; she lived for us and we lived for her. Today she's my guardian angel and i know that she watches over my every time. Her boyfriend is now 24. He's got a fantastic job in L.A., and earns really well. Just like all of us even he has moved on in his life but every year he flies back to India to meet us all. He still remembers her and loves her. My angel changed many lives because she was a true angel.
Why don't we just start living our life because we won't get another life or even another day. We need to learn to live, we need to learn to smile,  we need to be what we are, we need to learn that today won't come back again. We need to learn each day as it's our last day because remember "Everyone dies but not everyone lives."

* Please ignore the dramatically wrong sentences and spellings.


Friday 27 September 2013

This is Us :*

Friends stay together through good and through bad.
Friends stay together through happy and sad.
Friends stay together through break ups and tears.
Friends stay together over the years.
Friends stay together when different or alike,
Friends stay together through pain and through strife.
Friends stay together no matter the cause,
Friends stay together just because <3
Friends stay together through love and through hate,
Friends stay together through destiny and fate.
Friends stay together, they are just always there
Friends stay together because they care.

#Friendsarecrazy <3





Wednesday 25 September 2013

Be the friend B|

When she's crying on your shoulder
And you don't know what to say
Just wishper in her ears
That everything will be okay..

When she says her heart is broken
And her soul feels so alone,
Just tell her that you love her
Just tell her on the phone.

When you hear her breathe so gentely
And see tears fall from her eyes,
Wipe them one by one away
Tell her everybody cries

And soon she'll look up at you,
And maybe start to smile,
And thank you for just being there
Through all the painfall while.

And you'll look down in her beautiful eyes
And know just what to say
That on you she can depend,
And everything will be okay . J

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Tuesday 24 September 2013

The Guy I Want!

I want a guy who tells me everyday that I'm beautiful.
I want a guy who makes everyday of mine totally wonderful.
I want a guy who holds my hands and protects me.
I want a guy who dreams about only me whenever he sleeps.
I want a guy who can promise to always be my best friend.
I want a guy who can promise to stand with me till the end.
I want a guy who can lift my spirit sad and Blue,
I want a guy who is nothing different but just like You !
I want you to stay in my life just this way forever and ever,
I want that every morning I would wake up to find
A world where you and I are together  <3

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Monday 23 September 2013

You

You're the thought that starts each morning
The conclusion to each day
I envision you in all that I do
And everything I say

You are the smile on my face
The sparkle In my eye
The warmth inside my heart
The fullness in my life

The only hand that's laced to mine
The only coat upon my back
My friend and love, you have my heart
I'll never turn back

You're the dimple in my cheek
The constant tingle in my soul
The voice the makes me weak
You're the one who shields the cold

You're all I've wanted
All that I need
You're all I dream Of
You mean so much to me
#foreveryoung  


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Remember.

Remember?
The day we became friends
It was a dream come true for me
You set new trends.

Remember?
When I used to cry
Losing all hopes
But you asked me to live life.

Remember?
When you played with me
You tried to lose on purpose
So I would win easily

Remember?
When on your jokes I laughed
You said you saw a shine in my eyes
I looked like an angel with a guitar and a harp. :)

Remember?
The time I was angry
You waited patiently for my anger to subside 
And then filled me with glee.

Remember my friend, never lose hope
No matter what happens 
Life will not always be with us 
We have to be with life instead

Remember darling
Life is never fair
Don't ever break down 
You have to teach it
Desire and duty cannot be paired

I don't say all this because I am wise
I say them because I know the pain
I never want you to go through the strife

Remember my friend 
I'll always be there with you 
Whatever may happen in our life
I'll always be beside you because I care.
<3


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Saturday 7 September 2013

Introduction

Whats 'Me and You'
No its not a saying
No its not a Tag line
Its just me and you
Me is Me and You is You :P

Lol okay now let me give you my proper introduction. I am Akanksha, my short name is akii so lets go with Akii. 
ahh so i am Akii and i am a girl with too complicated lifebut at the same time i love living it ^_^
Cause YOLO* Man
My life may not be so amazing from other's view and it may not be full of all those shiny chicky micky things but for me its amaizng <3

I may not be so popular in school and even may not be the part of the 'IT CROWD' but i am surely a girl who loves to try out adventurous things. I may not be perfect but i am perfectly imperfect. I love facing challenges and to be a new girl everyday, a girl who's daring enough to live her lifeno matter how complicated it is. 
B|

^ Thats me <3 ^ 

The reason I made this blog is that I wanted each and everyone of you to know that we all are same. We all have not so perfect life, We all have problems, We all think we are not pretty, We all want to be like someone else.
No one is perfect neither am i nor are you. Its just the way we see the world which makes it perfect.

If  after reading this you feel its true with you then this blog is for you, but if you dont feel its true then theres something really wrong with you .
:P
LOL i m just kidding :)
So in this blog I'm goona post just everything, my life stories, Poems, Pictures videos.. just everything that'll really make you live your life the way it is.
And yes don't forget that whenever you need any help at any point of time in your life I'll always be there to help you. So whenever you have a problem feel free to inbox me on Facebook : www.facebook.com/akanksha.jha.799  , Yahoo: akanksha_2010_jha@yahoo.com , Gmail: akiixoxo@gmail.com,  Ask.fm: ask.fm/AkankshaJha
Okay next time you need to talk to remember i'll always be there for you. <3
Stay In touch
Look out for new Posts.
Akanksha Jha
xoxoxoxo
a crazy girl
*You Live Only Once